Speechless

Tuesday we received a general diagnosis for my husband. Cognitive Disorder…and the words they wanted to avoid. Dementia. To be specific Vascular Dementia. I did like the two doctors as they were gentle in breaking the news and explained to us how they got to that Diagnosis. More importantly, they set out a plan of… Continue reading Speechless

Abuse

This is not about me, this is about another family member. Over the years I’ve watched my stepdaughter kowtow to her husband’s every demand. Mostly they seemed sort of reasonable at least in the way she explained it. Then things starting showing a pattern. SD loves the countryside and she loves coming to our part… Continue reading Abuse

Time

Once upon a time I was married to a man who ‘knew’ what he wanted and when he wanted it. He was ‘the’ boss in a way. I didn’t mind as our decision making was generally in the same frame of mind. Cancer took so much from him. His TIA took some more. Now the… Continue reading Time